There is a line between what is seen as a disproportionate feeling, and to what is seen as a real feeling.
Direct experience within the perfect abidance (joy) will dissipate tension known as disproportion, (ego) and express truly as real feeling.
Disproportion is a line that defines attachment to ones emotional centre. True feeling will reflect only the knowing of it. The transcendent movement of realisation has no orientation to ones emotional nature rather, the emotional nature turns inward to reflect, what simply Is.